In 1997 my mother just wanted nothing to do with me.
I am an only child and she is an only child.
She surrounded herself with nothing but a set of crooks and people that she never liked.
So I took her into court.
All I did was trade one set of crooks for another.
The conservator had me barred from the house.
She had a housekeeper that took my mother to a check cashier and then stole a check that was going to the house.
I spent a lot of money to protect my mother.
I had to protect my mother against the crooks and the people representing the courts.
I did legally fight the conservator and got her money cut by 75 percent.
However, this was very costly and my life was just put on hold.
I will never be the same person.
The pain expressed here is something that one never gets over.
ReplyDeleteWe can get better - but we never totally heal.
Thank you for sharing these feelings with us.
This statement says it perfectly --trading one set of crooks for another.
ReplyDeleteOf course, once you trade to a guardian, you're stuck.
Good going on getting the guardian's fees reduced!
ReplyDeleteBe proud of that - few people can say they were successful getting that done!
Thanks for sharing your pain with us.
ReplyDeleteIt speaks a lot to your character that you tried to protect your mother after she treated you badly.
I am sorry you ended up trading crooks.
People don't realize why guardianship victims change so much. It's like a disease - you almost have to have it to know how bad it hurts.
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