Friday, December 25, 2009

All She Wants For Christmas is Her Parents

All Denise Vozzella wants for Christmas is her two parents.

But the 54-year-old North Naples woman won’t be allowed to spend Christmas Day with them at Windsor Place assisted-living facility in Naples.

Harold A. Foy, a legal guardian assigned to care for her parents, who both suffer from dementia, has refused her request, which she outlined in a letter.

Denise Vozzella hasn’t seen 81-year-old Marcel Vozzella and her mother, Jacqueline, 83, since Dec. 1, when she was asked to leave after the guardian contended her visits upset her parents and Windsor Place staff, who don’t want her within 100 feet of the home without being accompanied by a legal guardian.

On Dec. 10, Foy filed an emergency petition, seeking an order to further restrict her two-hour, twice-weekly supervised visitations. He contended Denise Vozzella curses at nurses, aides, and other staff, repeatedly tells her parents she’s broke to get money, and that the guardian is trying to kick her out of their house and spending all their money.

Foy said her visits upset her parents and cause her father’s blood pressure to rise, so he wanted to temporarily eliminate visitation to “stabilize” their anxiety and “maintain” their health.

“I’ve taken care of them, bathed them, clothed them and fed them,” Vozzella testified, sobbing as she detailed the last 14 years. “... I promised my parents I would do everything I could to take care of them.”

Denise Vozzella testified they cry when she leaves. And her father doesn’t like a supervisor listening to their conversations and tries to get them to leave. She called the supervised visits unfair, noting these could be the last days of her parents’ lives.

“They should be at home with their daughter ... not with people who don’t love them,” Vozzella testified, her voice choking with emotion as she wiped away tears.

Full Article and Source:
North Naples Woman Says She's Being Denied Christmas With Parents in Nursing Home

7 comments:

  1. Kicking family out of a house in order to sell it to pay legal fees (legal fees?), is the usual
    M.O. of a guardian perp.

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  2. I am sorry, Denise. Guardians who isolate their wards are sadistic. It's more important for them to "get" you than to do what's right for their wards.

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  3. YOU CAN BET HAROLD A. FOY SPENT CHRISTMAS WITH HIS PARENTS IF THEY'RE ALIVE.

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  4. People who advocate for their loved ones are often maligned in this horrible way.

    Shame on Foy!

    Stand strong Denise!

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  5. I hope Denise finds NASGA. We know exactly what she is going through.

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  6. Isolation is torture. Guardians who isolate are cruel, vicious people who don't have any empathy or probably even a soul.

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  7. Harold A. Foy completely disgusts me.

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