Monday, July 11, 2022

Remembering Betty


By Diane Dimond

The marvelous Betty Winstanley died in 2019, just shy of her 98th birthday in Lancaster County, Pennsylvania. She died in the captivity of a court-sanctioned guardianship that haunted her final years. Her life never should have ended that way.

Winstanley was an elegant, eloquent, remarkable woman. In an era when women were undereducated, she became a trained chemist. She was married for 72 years to her loving and supportive husband and was the mother of his three children. After Dr. Robert Winstanley died in 2014, Betty wanted to leave their retirement home in Pennsylvania and find another place in Maryland, closer to her two youngest children. The estranged oldest son protested and took the matter to the courtroom of Judge Jay Hoberg. Hoberg spent almost no time before declaring Betty to be "incapacitated." He appointed strangers to take control of all of Betty's life decisions. The legal battle, which lasted nearly four years, ate away at the $1.9 million nest egg the Winstanleys had worked so hard to amass. Betty hated every minute she was under court control.

Hers was the first guardianship story I ever wrote about, back in early 2016. I almost couldn't believe that a judge could declare an American citizen "incapacitated" and a "ward of the court" without so much as having a meaningful conversation with the elder person. I soon learned it was a frequent occurrence.

In an instant, elders lose their civil rights and all ability to make their own decisions. Suddenly, they have no say on how their money is spent, where they live, which doctors or friends they can see. And once the court decides the family is "dysfunctional," fee-earning outsiders who make their living in this oftentimes questionable profession take control. If family members question a guardian's actions, the court appointee can ban them from seeing their loved ones simply because they "upset" the elder.

Since telling readers about Betty's plight, I have written tens of thousands of words exposing this shameful practice. Several journalists have also written extensively on this court-sanctioned exploitation of older adults. Yet it still takes place in courtrooms across the country, with a concentration on sunny, retirement-friendly states like Florida, California, Nevada, Texas, New Mexico and Arizona. Horrifying cases of court-ordered guardians mistreating their wards and siphoning off massive amounts of estate money have also been reported in Pennsylvania, Ohio, Virginia, Alabama, Oregon, Maine, Michigan and many more states. Honestly, I could write a horror story a day about what is happening to elderly Americans victimized by the very system that is supposed to protect them. 

How much power do these guardians have, and how bad does it get? Take the case of Rebecca Fierle, a Central Florida guardian with more than 100 wards who allegedly placed "Do Not Resuscitate" orders on many of them without their consent. Those wards apparently had no idea that their assisted living residence or hospital would not be allowed to save their life in an emergency. In May, Navy veteran Steven Stryker's friends and family begged the probate judge to lift his unauthorized DNR. Stryker, 75, died a few days later while doctors and nurses in a Tampa hospital helplessly stood by.  

Now, in a rare move, Circuit Court Judge Janet Thorpe has ordered Fierle removed from almost 100 cases. Judge Thorpe found that Fierle had "abused her powers," with all those DNRs, and that she allegedly never told the court that she was taking Medicaid payments in addition to her hourly guardian fees. What happens next to Fierle is anybody's guess. Involuntary manslaughter charges, maybe?

That's how bad it gets. But still, local law enforcement, district attorneys and state attorneys general say they cannot act because it is a civil, not a criminal, matter once a probate judge has ruled. Holding seniors against their will and fraudulently taking their money sounds criminal to me.

Following Stryker's death, Florida Gov. Ron DeSantis promised he would "vigorously" investigate the state's guardianship system. Voters there have heard it all before. Florida, with the largest percentage of those over 65, has been the scene of decades of complaints about corrupt guardians, yet not one unethical guardian has ever been prosecuted. Governors, state legislators and members of Congress promise new, meaningful laws, but they never materialize. 

Betty Winstanley, a woman with whom I had many fascinating conversations, needed hearing aids. But, in my opinion, she was not incapacitated. Steven Stryker, who moved to Florida to take care of his elderly parents, had trouble swallowing, but he wasn't incapacitated either, according to his family and friends. The judges and guardians who failed to act in their best interests should be ashamed. Betty, Steven and the countless other seniors caught up in this demeaning system deserve better.

You know why judges, lawyers, guardians and those who operate residential senior facilities get away with mistreating seniors this way? Because so few are ever prosecuted. It is way past time to change that.

To find out more about Diane Dimond, visit her website at www.dianedimond.com. Her latest book, "Thinking Outside the Crime and Justice Box," is available on Amazon.com. 

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2 comments:

  1. Such a sad story. Thanks for sharing

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  2. Amazing as it is to believe for the good at heart ...this stuff is pervasive and the LA SCALIA FAMILY IN THE LASCALIA NAME has experienced it at all levels of government intervention as if it is taught in schools!

    By the way, the first sign that went up at my family's ESSO GASOLINE STATION located at 5220 Merrick Rd MASSAPEQUA NY 11758 that was under serious attack and eventually stolen, along with our $2.5 + million dollars worth of homes, not only for the intrinsic value of the properties, but as part of an ENVIRONMENTAL COVER-UP that allowed EXCONMOBIL & THE SEVEN SISTERS OF THE OIL CARTEL that molded the world into the EVIL PLACE that now flourishes worldwide.

    As the VICE-PRESIDENT OF LEGISLATION AND GOVERNMENTAL AFFAIRS for the RETAIL PETROLEUM INDUSTRY AUTOMOTIVE REPAIR TRADE SMALL BUSINESS COMMUNITY and the PUBLIC ( 1982-2000) I have interacted with the players and come to know the methodology of our adversaries and the means they use to undermine the truth all too well.

    Remembering Betty should move us all to address the issues of LEGAL ABUSE both in the ELDERLY REALM and all others much more forcefully and relentlessly.

    James La Scalia Jr 20 digit name Tues July 12, 2022 8:44am EST

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