Suzanne Ohrling age 81 invited home health care workers into the home
her father built nearly a hundred years ago in Milwaukie with an ie, a
suburb of Portland, Oregon. Approximately two and a half months later,
according to Mrs. Ohrling and her family, she was taken with force from
her home, and stuck into a nursing home from which she has told me she
thinks she will never be allowed to leave.
Mrs. Ohring's story was the subject of my previous article
'Nursing Home Inmate: The Crime is Old Age', published here at FFOA
9/4/14. In that article I did not use any names nor even name the state
as the family which had contacted me had borrowed money to remove their
mother to another state. The family reasonably in light of further
actions, feared their mother would not be released. Mrs. Ohrling in a
telephone interview with me had stated, "I don't think they will let me
leave. It is just a feeling I have that they won't let me leave." She
denied that anyone had specifically told her she could not leave but her
feeling was chilling. I chose not to use names though I had permission
to do so, so as not to endanger the plans of her family.
Early on the morning or September 9 Suzanne's son Randy Lytle who
resides in Nevada, spoke with his mother on the phone. According to
Lytle who had purchased two airline tickets, his mother was anxious to
fly home with him. I had put him in touch with the Oregon State
Ombudsman Office which looks out for the rights of nursing home
residents. According to Lytle they had warned him the nursing home might
call the police if he tried to remove his mother but that the police
could not do anything and it would be a scare tactic.
Mid afternoon on the ninth Mr. Lytle called me on his cell
phone, telling me he was at the nursing home, Milwaukie Convalescent
Center, 12045 SE Stanley Ave., and his mother was unresponsive. Mr.
Lytle described to me a horrible smell coming from his mother and said
she could not stand nor be dressed. Lytle said nursing home staff had
threatened to call the police and he had told them to go ahead, he had
been warned about that and the police couldn't do anything. State
workers appeared he said.
According to Mr. Lytle it was decided his mother had a bladder
infection and he demanded that she be treated immediately. He said the
convalescent care staff had said that was not necessary, but a
representative of the state said if family requested, it was OK to take
the patient to, as it turned out an emergency room. Lytle wanted to have
his mother drug tested but in the end this was not done and later could
not be done.
That September day apparently a family member could request care
for Mrs. Ohrling and family wishes needed to be acted upon. Between then
and now according to Randy Lytle, the state of Oregon has, without
notifying any family, appointed a guardian over his mother. Last week
Lytle says he was denied medical information concerning his mother. He
believed his mother was "sleeping way too much", inquired about her
blood sugar numbers and was told he could not have that information as
his mother had a guardian appointed! Randy said today that several
family members have now received notices to appeal the guardianship with
a two week filing date and a $250 fee required. He does not yet have
his copy which he plans to file and pay for with his Christmas bonus
from work.
Provided all this is true, how can something like this happen in
America? Why is it happening in Oregon? Randy Lytle gave me some contact
numbers for state workers who he notes have taken over his mother's
life and shut out family. Adult Protective Services was a term I was not
familiar with and a quick Google search elicited the information that
APS is very similar to Child Protective Services (CPS) but that the
grist for the grinding stones of APS are those who are disabled or over
age 65. [1] This is frightening indeed in my opinion.
Spring of 2014 Suzanne Ohrling lived in the home her father had
built, with her son Brett Lytle who has lived with his mother about 50
of his 53 years. Brett is a licensed construction worker; never married
he has lived with his mother as a friend and companion. There is deep
affection in this family. In the past few years his mother's arthritis
and diabetes have worsened, especially the arthritis and Brett also
became a care giver. Brett told me in an interview that this year he had
also been seriously ill though he continued to work and care for his
mother.
Brett described to me how his mother had applied for in home care
and that they came about May of this year. The health workers came
frequently until mid-summer when late one day the police, fire
department, code enforcement and Adult Protective Services workers
kicked in the door, according to Brett, and took away his mother.
Suzanne has little memory of being hauled out of her home. "People
cheated me when I went to sleep, they cheated me", she explained
plaintively.
Her son Brett is soft spoken like his brother Randy. His voice is
even when describing horrors that would send many into rage and despair.
Brett admits things were not as good as he wished they were, but he
comments that he was also seriously ill at the time the home health
workers came to his and his mother's home. The home was temporarily
condemned. Randy says his mom saved a lot of things. There were some
mice. Randy and Brett both note that the condemnation order also
required the repair of one plugged kitchen sink and that ALL electrical
outlets must be working. I have not seen a copy of the condemnation
order but it is my understanding that the home was inspected and the
condemnation lifted within weeks.
When his mother was hauled out of her home Brett was charged with
two counts of Class A misdemeanor neglect of his mother. How I wonder,
was he neglecting his mother when state provided health care workers had
been coming for something like two and a half months?What in the world
were those workers doing in all that time? Why did not these workers
work with Brett to correct any deficiencies before there were actions
that appear to be draconian, heavy handed and unnecessarily cruel?
Brett claims an female official state worker whom he named told
him, "In six months you will be convicted and your mom will spend the
rest of her life in a nursing home."
The state next filed a restraining order against Brett which
prevented him from even calling his mom on her birthday which occurred
last month.
Suzanne never understood why her beloved son was kept from her.
"Brett has never done anything wrong. No one has talked to me about this
case," she told me. "I will not go against Brett. He has been awful
nice to me," she said with obviously deep feeling.
The family has always been close and affectionate. Brett and Randy
have periodically lived with their mother while they worked. Suzanne
also had one daughter who, when she was a young mother, was brutally
beaten to death by a killer. There has been tragedy in the family and
surely the restraining order that separated Brett from his mother was
another.
Brett told me the restraining order came about because a couple
years ago or so his mother had become very ill and the ambulance EMTs
had come to the home. Brett said one EMT said, "Your mother would be
better off in a nursing home." Brett said he answered that he had
promised his mom she would never have to go in a nursing home and that
he made a the statement, "No way in hell she's going in a nursing home."
According to Brett notes or possibly a tape recording from that event
was used to bring and perpetuate the restraining order that would not
allow him any contact his mother for months. I have been unable to this
date, to ascertain that there was anything more to the restraining
order.
Mrs. Ohrling has rapidly deteriorated in the nursing home according
to her sons. Fearing that she could die without being allowed to see
the son who had lived with her for years, just after Suzanne's birthday
and just before Thanksgiving Brett, with the urging of his court
appointed attorney pleaded guilty to neglecting his mother. When he was
finally allowed to see her he was shocked by her physical condition. He
told me he thought the nursing home was not taking good care of her.
For me to write this story with names or even the location
there was always a gamble that I would do harm. Something does not feel
right and the family seems to me to be getting steamrolled by the
state.Would using names cause the home to remain condemned? Would
Brett's legal troubles get worse? Would the state tighten their grip on
Suzanne?
I know these people and they are hardworking and decent. They do
not have money to hire lawyers though I have been told by experts that a
family law attorney is needed. Whatever deficiencies may have been
found in Mrs. Ohrling's home I believe there was also a great deal of
love and caring and Mrs. Ohrling wanted to remain in her home. According
to her and her sons no one has discussed discharge planning with her
though Milwaukie Convalescent Center's web page states they, "provide
discharge planning for each patient." [
www.milwaukiecc.com]
Now the state of Oregon has apparently appointed a guardian for
Mrs. Ohrling without consulting family. This too is a point of
confusion. In a few days I will have copies of the form for the family
to appeal what they apparently were never consulted about until it was
too late. There seems nothing to loose in writing the story at this
time, names and all.
Randy Lytle thinks his mother's home may be worth about $350,000. A
civil rights expert I consulted off the record asked who was paying for
Mrs. Ohrling's confinement in Milwaukie Convalescent Center. I
mentioned the land value and this expert grunted uh-huh in a knowing
way.
A friend of mine who works with similar issues in Idaho suggested
Mrs. Ohrling's civil rights were violated because her son had been kept
from her. I have been assured by sources off the record she has no other
right than to be kept safe as determined by the state. If state
provided home care workers were in the home for almost two months, and
if the issues that seem to have led to Mrs. Ohrling's removal from her
home were fixed in a short period of time, what kind of safety does the
state need to provide? Why should this state mandated "safety" spill
over onto other family members who now seem to be legally cut out
of their mother's life decisions?
Shortly after his mother was put into Milwaukie Convalescent Center
her son Randy tried to reach her long term doctor. According to him
and as he understood it, the convalescent center had dismissed his
mother's regular doctor and assigned her a doctor connected to the
facility. He told me this was why he could not have his mother tested
for drugs when she was too weak to even stand when he came to fly her
home.
What of Milwaukie Convalescent Center? Their web site
www.milwaukiecc.com
shows pictures of pleasant one story buildings, a small manicured green
lawn, flowers and a cement bird bath. Under the heading "Nursing
Services" this statement appears: We believe that a nursing home should
be more than just providing excellent care. IT SHOULD BE ABOUT
INCREASING CONNECTIONS BETWEEN FAMILIES. (Emphasis mine.)
On another page describing social services within the facility it
is stated, "Social services maintain contact and open communication
between the facility, families and the residents..." It is also written,
"there is discharge planning for each patient." Also, "We stand up for
resident's rights and strive to make Milwaukie Convalescent Center their
home."
An article at
www.katu.com
[2] is titled "Looking for a nursing home? Make sure you do your
research". Citing 'Pro Publica' information about Oregon nursing homes
in genera the article makes this specific statement, "The Milwaukie
Convalescent Center has the highest number of deficiencies at 78."
Another article at
http://www.golocaldx.com [3]
also using 'Pro Publica' as a source shows that Milawukie CC is a "for
profit" nursing home with 96 beds, 58 of which are filled. The date of
this article is September 16, 2014. If these stats are accurate for that
date we can assume that Suzanne Ohrling accounts for one of the 58
filled beds. Fines and deficiencies or not the state of Oregon has, it
appears to me, decided unilaterally, this is the proper place for
Suzanne to continue to deteriorate while being kept "safe".
It is almost Christmas. Randy Lytle is counting the days until he
receives his Christmas bonus check from his work. In between long days
at work he must cash his check and apply it to the filing fees for the
appeal of something the state did, according to him, without consulting
the family. He will spend more and take time from work will fly to
Portland, Oregon for whatever court proceeding will follow. He loves his
mom.
"If she dies will the state even let us have her body?" he has
asked me. I said I thought so. Even if the state has managed to brand
his brother Brett as a criminal why is the rest of the family seemingly
punished? There is an adult grandchild of the murdered daughter. She
barely knew her mother and now it appears she will lose again with her
grandmother. (If I was in a snarky mood I would mention that Oregon
allows "Death With Dignity' which is assisted suicide. What happens when
Mrs. Ohrling's likely soon to be seized assets run out?)
We at Freedom Fighters of America will continue to pursue answers
in this story. If this case is what it appears perhaps we will be served
a gag order such as happened in the Justina Pelletier case and that of
the Diegel sisters in Phoenix, Arizona. In the meantime we will have our
version of the Friday document dump with a weekend article dump. Dear
friends at FFOA, share this around the world. Protect your elderly and
disabled loved ones with knowledge of your state's policies.
Mrs. Ohrling has not been declared incompetent in a court of law to
the knowledge of her family. Sources tell me that sort of thing is now a
battle of experts and Suzanne's family cannot afford to hire the
experts~or lawyers. Therefore Mrs. Ohrling's desires are not considered
as I understand it. Let Suzanne's own words end this article:
"I would like to go home; to be able to go home. They won't
let me because of old age. I have a right to go home to my own home"
(Here she began to cry) "I'd do anything to get out of this place I
haven't done anything wrong, why are they holding me here? Because of
old age. The crime is old age."
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[1] htto://
www2.webster.edu ; Elder Abuse and Neglect ; a quick understanding of Adult Protective Services