Saturday, October 29, 2011

Tommy Thompson: Guilt-Ridden Children Are Spending Too Much On Grandma’s Health

Former Wisconsin governor and US health secretary Tommy Thompson offered up an intense psychoanalytic take on the thorny issue of end-of-life care this week, saying that “guilty” children who ignore their elders then overcompensate at their deathbed are responsible for spiraling costs.

“What happens? Mother or father or grandpa and grandma, you’ve been away, you haven’t done very much. Children come home, mother or father’s on their deathbed, they feel guilty because they haven’t being paying attention to mother or father,” Thompson said at a luncheon in Madison. He continued: “Let’s face it. So they say ‘let’s do everything we can for mother or father. Don’t spare the costs.’ I’m not talking about denying anybody anything. I’m just saying let’s let mother and father have their wishes. They may not want to be on a respirator the last six months of their life.”

According to Wisconsin Radio Network, Thompson, who is expected to run for Senate in Wisconsin, “said people need to have durable power of attorney to ensure their wishes are known, and he also said the nation’s medical schools need to start talking about death.”

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Tommy Thompson: Guilt-Ridden Children Are Spending Too Much On Grandma’s Health

7 comments:

Thelma said...

What good are powers and proxies if you get in front of a bad judge who has no interest in your wishes and just does his thing with his cronies; i.e., guardiship and/or conservatorship? They are given God-awful powers of life and death, so it shouldm't be just all about family.

StandUp said...

One of these days, Mr. Thompson, you may wish your children are "guilt ridden."

Finny said...

All about money, isn't it, Mr. Thomson. I bet if it were your Grandma, you'd look at it quite differently.

Norma said...

Don't elect this guy, Wisconsin!

Betty said...

Absolute wrong thing to say Thompson.

Anonymous said...

I was thinking the exact same thing Norma.

jerri said...

geez this is like a d soap opera there is a sinister hidden message here mr thompson is speaking as an expert in my opinion he is off the wall with his thinking get the hook his time is over better he keeps his thoughts to himself his credibility has been damaged big time