Monday, May 2, 2016

Man sentenced for abusing elderly mother, stepfather


Derek Baxter Emmett
COBB COUNTY, GA (CBS46) - A man convicted of abusing his elderly mother and stepfather will spend at least the next four years behind bars after being sentenced in a Cobb County courtroom Thursday.

Derek Baxter Emmett, 49, was convicted on eight counts related to the terrorizing and abuse of his mother, 80 year-old Barbara Emmett and her husband, 78 year-old Harry Swink. He was sentenced to 15 years but must serve a minimum of four years.

An investigation into the case was launched in May of 2015 and Emmett was arrested a short time later.

Harry Swink & Barbara Emmett
According to investigators, Barbara Emmett had back surgery and was recovering when the abuse started. Harry Swink was oxygen dependent and in a wheelchair.

Police say Derek Emmett would frequently break in to the couple's home and demand money.

Emmett also assaulted two investigating detectives and was arrested for felony obstruction.

Emmett accepted a plea deal Thursday by agreeing to the following charges:
    2 counts of elderly exploitation
    2 counts of elderly abuse
    2 counts of burglary
    1 count of felony obstruction
    1 count of criminal damage to property-2nd degree

Emmett is not eligible for parole.

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Sunday, May 1, 2016

The Seven Stages of Dementia


From “no impairment” to “very severe,” knowing the seven stages of dementia can help guide you as a caregiver. One of the main topics of discussion when someone is diagnosed with dementia is the “stage” of the disease — a marker of how far it has progressed.

Dementia symptoms can range from mild memory loss to more severe cognitive difficulties that make it hard to manage daily activities without help. These symptoms are broadly grouped into categories called stages that help guide doctors and families in their care of dementia patients.

“Usually we think of memory loss as a continuum,” explains Raj C. Shah, MD, medical director of the Rush Memory Center at Rush University Medical Center in Chicago. “Dementia is defined as chronic memory loss, ultimately affecting quality of life.”

Dr. Shah points out that people with dementia progress along the memory loss continuum in their own individual way, and often there is no clear-cut moment when you know that your loved one has moved from one stage to another. Becoming familiar with the stages of dementia, however, is still useful for giving care. This can help guide:
  • Expectations. You and your family members will have a general idea of what your loved one’s future may hold and you can make plans accordingly.
  • Treatments. The medications available to help control dementia symptoms have been studied in clinical trials during different stages of dementia. Not all medications are necessarily appropriate for your family member, depending on their specific symptoms and stage of dementia.
The Stages of Dementia

The stages of dementia are as follows:
  • No impairment. At this stage, there are no obvious signs of dementia and people are still able to function independently.
  • Very mild. Dementia signs are barely noticeable and simply appear to be the kind of forgetfulness associated with aging — such as misplacing keys but finding them again after some searching.
  • Mild. At this stage, patients are “usually able to do basic activities of daily living,” says Shah — which means they can perform their daily routines, such as getting up, going to the bathroom, getting dressed, and so on, without difficulty. Symptoms of dementia at this stage may include:
    • Some forgetfulness and memory loss
    • Repetition
    • Losing items without being able to retrace steps to find them
    • Slight trouble managing finances, such as balancing a checkbook
    • Confusion while driving
    • Trouble managing medications
    • Loss of concentration
  • Moderate. At this stage patients have “trouble doing routine tasks that they always did, such as cooking, laundry, or using the phone,” explains Shah. Other dementia symptoms during this stage include:
    • Trouble holding urine (incontinence)
    • Increase in memory loss and forgetfulness
    • Inability to use or find the right words and phrases
    • Difficulty doing challenging mental math exercises, such as counting backwards from 100 by 7
    • Increase in social withdrawal
  • Moderately severe. At this stage, dementia patients will need some assistance with their day-to-day activities. Symptoms of moderately-severe dementia include:
    • Increase in memory loss, including inability to remember home address, phone number, or other personal details
    • Confusion about location or chain of events
    • Trouble with less challenging mental math exercises
    • Needing help to select appropriate clothing for the climate, season, or occasion
  • Severe. “Caregivers have to help a lot more with day-to-day activities” at this stage, says Shah. Dementia signs at the severe stage include:
    • Needing help to get dressed
    • Requiring help with toileting, such as wiping and flushing
    • Wandering and becoming lost if not supervised
    • Inability to recall the names of family members or caregivers, but still being able to recognize familiar faces
    • Sleep disturbances
    • Changes in personality or behavior, such as increased paranoia or even hallucinations
  • Very severe. This is the final stage of the disease. Symptoms of dementia during this stage include:
    • Loss of language skills
    • Loss of awareness of surroundings
    • Requiring help to eat
    • Lack of control over urination
    • Loss of muscle control to smile, swallow, or even walk or sit without support
In order to determine your loved one’s stage of dementia, your doctor will ask a variety of questions of both the patient and the caregiver. These questions may include some mental tests. One frequently used screening tool is called the Mini-Mental State Examination, an 11-question exam that can help pinpoint cognitive decline on a scale of 0 to 30. In general, Shah says that a score between 14 and 26 points correlates to mild/moderate stage dementia and a score between 4 and 14 correlates with severe dementia.

It’s important to remember that the stages of dementia are somewhat fluid — use them to help plan for future changes and to work with your doctor to develop a solid treatment plan.

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How the Dream of Retirement Is Becoming a Nightmare


(This article originally appeared on Slant.com.)

None of us expected to be here — broke or near broke, unemployed or underemployed, working part-time at a job we hate with little to nothing in our savings account.

We grew up thinking retirement meant Florida and golf, not that most of us really wanted that. It definitely didn’t mean living in our brother’s basement or in some modest one-bedroom rental. We never thought in our 50s and 60s we’d be scrimping and scraping, borrowing money from our adult children or 84-year-old mother.

And yet, here we are…millions of us and millions more on the way.

Excessive spending is not what landed millions of Americans here. The truth is for many households, there’s nothing left to save after the bills are paid.

Half of Households Have No Retirement Savings

How bad is it? According to a May 2015 study by the Government Accountability Office (GAO) on retirement preparedness, half of American households have no retirement savings at all. That’s zero: no 401(k)s, no IRAs, not a dime.

You’re thinking maybe that’s because near-retirees have a fat pension stashed away somewhere. You’d be wrong. According to the GAO, around 29 percent of households age 55 and older have neither retirement savings nor a pension.

And among those who do have some retirement savings, the median value of retirement accounts for households age 55 to 64 is about $104,000. Now $104,000 sounds a lot better than zero until you look at the retirement monthly income this savings would actually generate.

Drum roll please. According to the GAO, your $104,000 nest egg will generate an inflation-protected annuity of about $310 per month.

I stopped mid-mascara when I heard that.

Even when you add in the average monthly Social Security benefit of $1,335, it’s still depressing.

Why Aren’t Americans Saving More?

There’s a lot of hand wringing about why Americans aren’t saving more. Blaming and shaming is so deliciously tempting. We’re told that it is our fault that after a lifetime of work we have not managed to save the 15 to 20 times our annual salary that financial experts tell us we’ll need to maintain our current standard of living in retirement.

The same pundits finger wag and chastise us for being poor planners. After all, why on earth would we draw down our 401(k) to cover medical expenses, the monthly shortfall on our mother’s nursing home care, our kid’s education or just to survive? What were we thinking paying off that credit card debt (or something else; you fill in the blank)?

But let’s get real.

Excessive spending is not what landed millions of Americans here. The truth is for many households, there’s just nothing left to save after the bills are paid.

According to the Social Security Administration in 2014, the average U.S. worker’s pay was $44,569. If we set aside in savings the 20 percent financial experts tell us we’ll need to maintain our current lifestyle in retirement, we’re left with $35,655 to live on before taxes.

You might say: hard, but not impossible with some extreme belt tightening.

But here is the kicker. Sixty-seven percent of American workers make less than the average. The median wage in 2014 was $28,851. Subtract 20 percent, or $5,770 in savings, and you have $23,081 to live on.

FUGEDDABOUTIT.

You’re not going to save on these wages. It barely keeps you above the federal poverty line of $20,090 for a family of three. And you fall below it at $24,250 for a family of four.

Given this reality, no one should be surprised that more than half of Americans have less than $1,000 in their checking and savings accounts. This is paycheck-to-paycheck living, one surprise event from financial catastrophe.

The looming retirement income security crisis is also not caused by “a set of isolated individual behaviors,” according to Teresa Ghilarducci, a labor economist and leading authority on the economics of retirement.

In other words, we’re not here because we’re a country of irresponsible slackers or because we overspent on luxury items trying to keep up with the Joneses.

Squeezed between 30 years of flat and falling wages and escalating costs in housing, healthcare and education, it’s doubtful that kicking our daily latte habit (if we had one) would have made much of a difference in our retirement savings.

America’s Structural Problem

The real problem is structural and baked right into our retirement security system.

The three-legged stool of retirement income we boomers thought we could count on — Social Security, company pensions and personal savings — has gone wobbly. With the declining availability of employer-funded pensions; the inadequacy of 401(k) plans with their steep fees and dependence on people’s voluntary savings for 40 years; stagnant wages and the sharp drop in personal savings, many near-retirees are left with what some experts describe as the “pogo stick” of Social Security to negotiate their Golden Years.

And how much is that? According to the Social Security Administration, the average retiree is receiving just $1,335 per month or $16,020 annually, just above the federal poverty guidelines ($15,930) for a two-person household.

What this means is that most of us will not be buying that condo in Costa Rica advertised in glossy retirement living publications. We won’t be traveling the world anytime soon or forging those remarkable second and third acts we read about in the popular press. Many of us are facing a work-for-life proposition, isolated and alone, worried about how we’re going to survive when our money runs out.

And how big is the shortfall? According to the Pension Rights Center, the deficit between what Americans have and what we need to retire is $7.7 trillion

Wrap your brain around that number. It assumes we will be spending down ALL of our assets, including home equity.

A Plea to the Presidential Candidates

Now you’d think that a problem of this magnitude and urgency would have garnered some serious airtime in the presidential debates, but so far not so much.

Certainly, it is a big concern and top priority for millions and millions of Americans, and not only boomers. Millennials, too, are worried about what to do with their parents who are now running out of money. As one friend said to me recently: “You better get along with your adult offspring, you’re going to end up living with them.”

So presidential candidates, what’s your plan for dealing with the retirement security crisis?

As you know, we boomers are a little old for hollow reassurance. We know the debates, heavy on sound bites and entertainment, are not the best platform to address a subject as complex and serious as retirement-income security. But you can lay out your priorities.

Oh and one last thing: Puleeeze, don’t talk to us about cutting Social Security.

For millions of Americans, Social Security is The Retirement Plan: 65 percent of beneficiaries depend on it for half or more of their monthly income. Without it, nearly half of women 65 and older would live in poverty or extreme poverty. Let’s not gloss over what extreme poverty means. It means living on less than $5,885 per year or $490 a month.

So when you threaten to cut entitlement programs like Social Security, what you’re really talking about is dooming millions and millions of boomer-age women to misery and destitution. Boomer-age women who vote.

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S. Florida testing new alerts to find lost Alzheimer's patients


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Saturday, April 30, 2016

The Loss of Advocate Tracey Anne Miller


Today, we must share the shocking news that advocate Tracey Anne Miller has passed.

We are so sad to lose Tracey and will miss her positive energy and her wisdom. She was a perfect example of the silver lining in the darkest of clouds. We would not have known her nor would our paths cross in this life had her brother Mike not been shot in his youth, leaving him severely disabled and in guardianship. The tragedy of guardianship abuse connects advocates forever.

As we remember Tracey, please remember her brother Mike --- whom she loved so much that she dedicated her life to him.

Godspeed, Tracey Anne Miller.

BLINDSIDED: The Reality of Caring for Aging Parents



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Jahi McMath photo shows ‘beautiful’ girl alive and well, says mother


Jahi McMath
March 21, 2016 (LifeSiteNews) – Three years after Jahi McMath was declared "brain-dead," her mother has posted a photo she says shows "beautiful Jahi, doing very well, hair, skin and all very healthy, growing into a beautiful young lady right in front of her mothers eyes."

LifeSiteNews was not able to verify the photo on the family's Facebook page – "Keep Jahi McMath on life support" – but other news outlets had the photo that was attributed to McMath's mother, Nailah Winkfield.

"Jahi Will Rise," said the Facebook post, the first on the page since the new year and the first update on McMath since December. "A recent picture of beautiful Jahi, doing very well, hair, skin and all very healthy, growing into a beautiful young lady right in front of her mothers eyes. God has done and is still doing great things in this young girls life. Jahi's Journey and Miracle is a story and testimony to be told."
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Thirteen-year-old Jahi McMath's family claims that she is responsive despite having been diagnosed as "brain-dead."
McMath's story of survival goes back to 2013, after she had routine surgery for sleep apnea and to remove her tonsils. She ended up in cardiac arrest for two hours and was declared brain-dead in a California hospital.

Her story made national news after her parents refused to allow doctors to remove the care keeping her alive. After a multi-year battle, they were allowed in 2014 to remove McMath to a St. Peter's Children's Hospital in New Brunswick, New Jersey.

McMath's parents have sued the doctor who did the surgery, claiming he did not inform them of the risks to their then-13-year-old daughter, who has a rare condition that caused hemorrhaging after the surgery. They are also fighting to have her death certificate changed to declare their daughter alive so that insurance will cover her care.

In addition to photos and videos from McMath's parents showing her still alive, she has been examined by at least one physician and, according to a court document, regularly experiences menstrual cycles.

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Elder Medical Kidnapping in Texas Results in Abuse and Death of Elderly Mother



by Health Impact News/MedicalKidnap.com Staff

Darrell Miller’s elderly mother was taken from her home and family in a heartbreaking chain of events initiated by Adult Protective Services. Even today, the Duncanville, Texas man struggles to understand and to communicate the horrors that his mother experienced as a victim of elder kidnapping and abuse. Although he fought well, his pleas went unanswered by the courts and police.
They killed my Mom, and now they’re trying to blame it on me and Methodist.
Sir Arthur Conan Doyle wrote:
Once you eliminate the impossible, whatever remains, no matter how improbable, must be the truth.

Elderly Mother Seized, Son Falsely Accused

Miller’s mother was taken by the court’s “care system” – APS (adult protective services) and DADs (Texas Department of Aging and Disabilities), who claimed he was unable to care for her. Once she was in the state’s custody, a story unfolded that Darrell would hardly believe if he hadn’t seen it for himself.

When Darrell attempted to get his mother out of a medical facility that he reports was harming her, hospital staff called the police and allegedly made up allegations that Darrell sexually abused his own mother (an allegation which Darrell vehemently denies, and says has absolutely no evidence – he believes it was simply rumored by hospital authorities). There was also a barrage of phone calls placed by people whom Darrell believes were the APS workers.

His mother’s medical paperwork included a diagnosis of “dementia,” which Darrell (like so many other adult care givers) asserts she “didn’t have.”  He also believes that APS systematically deteriorated his mother’s health in order to deplete her financial assets.  He alleges that authorities over-medicated his mother and treated her for illnesses she did not have.

Those who have been victimized are well aware of these patterns. Although in the midst of the mayhem, they may be unable to discern all attempts by the kidnappers to fog the issues and the true reasons behind their behaviors, sometimes one of us can see something(s) more clearly than others.

Darrell understood that the systems were trying to take his mother’s assets, but he had to focus on her health, which deteriorated each time she was placed in a care facility. He also was forced to fight against the allegations of his mistreatment of her.

Darrell makes these allegations based upon his dealings with APS, DADs, and LTAC (long term acute care facilities) and the reams of evidence he allegedly has to prove them.

Son Accepts “Help” from the State

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When APS accused Darrell of neglecting his mother’s care (which he denies), Miller knew he had to do something more. His schedule was very busy, between caring for his mother and his own family, and he realized that he would need help to give her the close care she needed. So, he did the reasonable thing and finally accepted an offer from Continuous Care (CC) nurses to assist him with his mother’s care at her home.

Darrell learned, like many others before him who have had this “help” with their own loved one, that they were only there to help themselves.

From March through May of  2014, Darrell tended to the round the clock care of his mother. He made sure she got to her appointments, stayed by her side during hospital stays, and ensured that there was a well established plan of care for her.  (Continue Reading)

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Friday, April 29, 2016

Remember the Dementia Village in the Netherlands? It’s Spreading.


Activities such as listening to music, talking about the past, gardening and even housekeeping are extremely beneficial to people with Alzheimer's disease. In fact, a growing number of individuals with dementia are participating in nontraditional therapies such as art, storytelling and aromatherapy to improve their quality of life and overall well being. Several dementia care facilities around the world are taking this a step further by creating therapeutic environments that encourage residents to interact and participate in life.


The Dementia Village Concept


This new trend in Alzheimer's care centers is based on reminiscence therapy, which is an alternative treatment option that uses sensory cues to stimulate long-term memory and encourage communication. A facility that adopts this model transforms its traditional nursing home environment into an interactive place from the past. Residents explore indoor and outdoor spaces that replicate scenes from the 1930s, 1940s and 1950s, including garages with cars, vintage kitchens, barbershops and restaurants. This concept debuted in the Netherlands in 2009, and it is finally starting to spread worldwide.


Memory Lane in England


Grove Care in Bristol, England, created Memory Lane in 2012 to provide its residents with “an attractive and interesting destination.” It also serves as an immersive reminiscent therapy environment for people with dementia. The street is lined with store fronts, including a post office, supermarket and neighborhood pub, and is designed to resemble a typical British town in the 1950s. Vintage advertisements and memorabilia decorate the rooms, inside and out, to stimulate memories and encourage conversation.

Reminiscent Care in Canada


Georgian Bay Retirement Home in Ontario, Canada, added a similar therapeutic environment with rooms that are reminiscent of the 1950s and 1960s. Some residents hold life-like babies in the nursery, while others talk and socialize in the kitchen or at the barbershop. The facility also has a garage with a 1947 Dodge, areas for hobbies such as sewing and gardening, and an artificial beach. It offers 38,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor space and a variety of programs for people with dementia and Alzheimer's disease, including music therapy, storytelling and multi-sensory therapy.


The Easton Home in Kansas

The Easton Home is part of the dementia care wing at Cedar Lake Village retirement community in Olathe, Kansas. The facility redecorated a multipurpose room and a former employee break room to create space for reminiscing. A 1968 pickup truck sits in the courtyard, inviting residents to sit, relax and talk or listen to music. Inside, furnishings, music and decorations from the 1930s, 1940s and 1950s give residents and their guests something to talk about. The facility also has “memory walls” with sensory cues relating to traveling, hobbies, parenting and similar topics to help residents reminisce. A similar facility exists in Scotland, and another is proposed for Florida. Thus far, however, none hold a candle to the four-acre dementia village in the Netherlands that started the trend. Read more about Hogewey, a living community for people with dementia and their caretakers.

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