Wednesday, October 12, 2011

A Heartbreaking Story of Guardian Abuse - Part IV

This is the fourth article in the continuing “Heartbreaking” series on the Dorothy Wilson elder abuse case at the hands of law guardian, Mary Giordano, of the Franchina and Giordano law firm. Most of the antics have been approved by the “honorable” Judge Joel Asarch, of the NYS Supreme Court in Mineola, NY, including the obvious bias against Diane Wilson, who has been the only one of Dorothy’s children fighting to help her.

Almost all of this would have been less complicated if Diane’s siblings would have tried to be of assistance. Instead, each of them stated in court that their mother would be better off in a nursing home, rather than at their sister’s. However, when Dorothy asked Diane’s sister on the telephone, several times, what she was doing to help her, she was allegedly told that this child was frequently making calls to the law guardian to help her. In court, at the last conference, where Dorothy was disallowed to attend, Dorothy’s son admitted not visiting his mother since she had been locked up in the latest facility. From an outsider’s perspective, they are using their family dissension as an excuse to provoke more problems for their mother. It is clear that the venom felt towards Diane’s close relationship with her Mom has fueled much of their antagonistic and greedy behavior.

When you have a situation where people in high positions seem to bend and break the laws, it takes all hope away from the victims and those helping them. Since researching and questioning a variety of people about this case, and other law guardian abuse cases against the elderly and sick, I am finding that the only thing that is truly sick is how much they get away with. Most people, in general, are afraid to get involved in correcting this serious situation. It appears that millions of dollars are basically stolen each year from the people who the guardians and judges are supposed to be in a position to protect.

I had the privilege of seeing Dorothy Wilson on October 7th. Keep in mind that one of the vague reasons that has been used to incarcerate her in a nursing home--against her will--is because of her mental state. Dorothy has some dementia; not a fact that anyone has tried to hide. However, the last time I saw her was over six months ago, she seemed very alert, albeit with some short-term memory issues. As I walked in the door to her room, she immediately knew who I was. Just as earlier in the year, she would have slight lapses in memory, but once reminded with a few words, Dorothy would expand in detail about whatever we spoke about.

It was very difficult seeing her sitting in a room by herself. Although the facility she is in is very nice, the room gave off a depressed energy. Granted, I am much more prone to feeling things like that then the average person is, but it still made me feel like I was suffocating; as though life was being drained from me. I could only imagine what Dorothy feels as she awaits the judge to do the right thing and free her from what she sees as a prison sentence.

Full Article and Source:
A Heartbreaking Story of Guardian Abuse - Part IV

See Also:
Heartbreak of Elder Abuse Continutes

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9 comments:

Nancy said...

Every time I see another installment of "a heartbreaking story" I am first sad there has to be another installment and then elated that this case is getting public attention.

kcruzette said...

This 'evil' has got to be stopped. It appears that lawmakers, politicians etc., hear about it but do nothing...and some are even perpetrators.

A country falls because of the moral decline...and our country is failing...

Barbara said...

Praying for you, Diane.

Anonymous said...

Why is systemic elder abuse tolerated?

Mike said...

I am glad to see this case continue to get coverage.

I will never forget that the guardian tricked Dorothy Wilson out of her home. How low is that?

Anonymous said...

Keep up the media pressure!

Sue said...

Media attention is a great way to expose the truth. Hopefully, people will pay attention and join the movement to stop this insanity because it will happen again and again. Guardianship industry is out of control with no where to complain. Stay strong Diane.

Anonymous said...

It is good that the case is getting the needed attention, because all elders abuses and exploitations need to be stopped. Yes, this country is indeed in moral decline.Erna

Thelma said...

The only thing that can keep government honest is the media, if they shook loose from government control!