Monday, August 6, 2018

Woman who cares for elderly finds out her mother was being financially abused

Elderly people in New York — and the state as a whole — are being taken for at least $1.5 billion each year because of financial exploitation, according to calculations from the Office of Children and Family Services.

The figure includes amounts that seniors lose from their accounts and what it costs the state to cover Medicaid expenses earlier than otherwise expected.

As a way to protect vulnerable older adults, New York is expanding a team approach to investigating claims of financial and other forms of abuse.

By the fall of 2020, every county will have access to an enhanced multidisciplinary team, made up of professionals from adult protective services, agencies that help older people, law enforcement and criminal justice, health care and financial services. Team members will coordinate investigations and come up with ways to stop or prevent elder abuse. Teams also will have a forensic accountant who can follow a money trail.

New York is calling the enhanced multidisciplinary teams initiative the first in the nation, and it is funded by $8.4 million in federal and state money. The initiative was announced last week by Gov. Andrew Cuomo.

Each county will either have a team in its jurisdiction or share one from a hub. Lifespan of Greater Rochester, the state Office for the Aging and the New York City Elder Abuse Center are collaborating on the initiative.

“It’s going to get people to hopefully call in and we’ll have more cases that are investigated, whether it goes criminal or not,” said Art Mason, director of the Upstate Elder Abuse Center at Lifespan. “More victims are going to be identified, and these cases will be more thoroughly investigated because of all the people in the room.”

Monroe County has had such a team since for the past four years. Last year, it reviewed about 20 percent of the 150 financial exploitation cases handled by Lifespan.

Sprinkling hints of abuse


But a number of seniors are reluctant to acknowledge the abuse.

“They’re embarrassed; they’re afraid,” said Debra Kostiw, president of Home Helpers of Rochester, which provides light housekeeping and other nonmedical services to seniors.

“The person that’s being abused is going to give subtle hints that there’s something going on,” she said. “It’s really important that the average person, the neighbor, the mailman, the hairdresser, the bank teller listen for these sprinkles.”

Kostiw said she didn’t find out until her mother died in March — a few days before her mother was slated to come back home to Monroe County — that the woman was allegedly being financially and physically abused by her son and daughter-in-law.

Eleanor McGarigle had gone with her son to his home in Michigan a couple of years ago. But the friends she’d made over a lifetime in Fairport kept in touch. At her funeral, several of them came up Kostiw and shared snippets of their conversations.

One recounted that McGarigle said her daughter-in-law attacked her. Did Kostiw know, the woman asked.

Another said she called only during the day, when she knew no one else was home and McGarigle was free to talk.

“ ‘What do you mean, do I know?’” Kostiw said she replied. “I was like, 'Come on, this can’t be happening.' … I own a home care business and this happened to my own mother. If I can miss it, anybody can miss it.”

McGarigle was killed when the car driven by her son crashed, said Kostiw, who is using her business to raise awareness among professionals and others in the community about signs of potential abuse.

Most abuse not reported


Even though the situation with Kostiw’s mother happened in Michigan, it’s likely similar scenarios are playing out in Finger Lakes counties and could be referred to the multidisciplinary teams.

According to a state-funded study published in 2011, for every reported case of abuse, 23 others were not.

“The numbers are going up,” said Jennifer Meagher, owner of Senior Life LLC, geriatric care management nurses. “Families are going to be more and more responsible. We hear an awful lot of talk about let’s let elders age in place. These are some of the situations that can happen.”

Lifespan’s Mason said the multidisciplinary team will respond to suspected abuse happening to an elder living in the community, not in a facility. The success, though, depends on someone’s willingness to call their county’s adult protective services.

Mason said that once a call is received, a case worker will start to gather information, including interviews with the person reporting, the victim if that’s possible, and financial planners or other people who are relevant to the situation. The information will be brought to the team, which will come up with a plan for investigating the allegations.

“Some people don’t want help,” Mason said. “They say, ‘I don’t care, it’s my grandson, I realize I’ll lose my house and won’t have any money, but he’s the only family I’ve got. … I don’t want your help.’ And there’s nothing we can do about it.”

PSINGER@Gannett.com

To report elder abuse


Residents in Monroe, Wayne, Ontario, Livingston, Genesee, Orleans, Seneca, Cayuga and Yates counties can call Lifespan at (585) 244-8400.

Or call your county’s adult protective services, which is part of its social services department. In Monroe County, call (585) 753-6532 from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. weekdays, and (585) 461-5698 for after-hours emergencies.

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1 comment:

StandUp said...

It can happen to anyone.